Someone did a blog about how there really are nice guys but girls aren’t interested in them romantically so they shouldn’t complain about there not being nice guys etc. “Nice guys finish last” is a cliche. Here’s my response which I thought was blogworthy:
Many men are abusive, hot and cold running shitbags. They get women pregnant and have kids. They then shit on their kids and their daughters, like every abuse victim, take the blame for the relationship onto themselves as a coping mechanism and try in vain to fix the relationship with the creep father, until they realize that they can’t or don’t want to. But they have so many unresolved feelings they are drawn to other creeps who remind them of their fathers because they can project their unresolved feelings onto them, then if they fix the relationship, get forgiveness, love, respect, attention, whatever, then they can finally resolve years of built up shit. But those guys are shitbags too, so they go from one shitty relationship to another and overlook guys like you because as nice as you are nice isn’t what they need (well actually it is but their subconscious mind is retarded). What their subconscious mind thinks it needs is a piece of shit who can treat them badly and then apologize and reform and love them. Preferably while riding a unicorn.